Focus, not on your faults, flaws, and all the things wrong with you. Focus on who your becoming. Don’t focus on the negativity and “fixing” yourself, focus on the good attributes that you want to possess and build those in your life. One of my church leaders once quoted that “If I walk in who I am, I’ll know who I’m not” And I find that phrase to be so true.
“Ephesians 4:24 Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy.”